Can we save our failing marriage?
In my sessions, I work with couples that have a wide range of issues. They frequently approach me in a desperate attempt to learn whether their failing marriage may be saved. Before giving themselves one more chance, they attempted different types of counselling.
Most people have forgotten who they are and why they are married. Because of this, they are each concentrating on their own unique wants rather than those of their partner. This results in
interminable disputes.
They feel disconnected and stuck, lose their identity, and there is no prospect for a shared future. They also feel miserable, unhappy, hurt, and misunderstood.
What exactly do I do in my sessions?
There are some fundamentals that I go over with each couple to help them realise and learn how to refocus on what is important to them as a couple and as individuals. To enable each of you to be who you were actually meant to be, we collaborate to uncover your true sense of self. This makes it easier for you both to comprehend one another's mentalities and worldviews.
Then, you can discover each other's requirements and how you might fulfil them. In turn, this eliminates the worry of being undervalued. We can proceed toward finding the truth from a place of safety and security by studying and doing these methods.
No matter what has happened in the past, trust may be restored from this point.
Gaining emotional strength opens up a world of possibilities for dealing with problems both now and in the future. From here, you may create a future that works for the two of you.
Many people desperately want to know HOW to make their marriage work. Changing your perspective and learning about each of your deep-seated needs brings light and clarity to you. Having a true understanding of yourself and your partner can transform relationships that previously had little to no hope.
I agree that not all relationships work out or should be maintained, but so many split up for the wrong reasons and subsequently regret it. Many people will never know what may have been.
Make sure that is not you.
Please get in touch with me today or book your complimentary consultation here.
I look forward to meeting you,
Jane
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