The Risks of Arguing or Venting via Message – Insights from a Relationship Coach
In today’s fast-paced world, it’s all too easy to reach for our phones when we’re upset or frustrated, sending off texts in moments of anger. However, resolving conflicts via text often leads to misunderstandings, emotional escalation, and damaged relationships. In my article, “The Pitfalls of Arguing or Venting via Text,” I share key insights as a **relationship coach** to help you navigate these situations and communicate more effectively. You can read the full article here.
Why Relationship Coaches Advise Against Text-Based Arguments
Text messages lack the essential components of human interaction, such as tone, body language, and immediate feedback, which are crucial for resolving conflicts. As a relationship coach, I’ve observed how relying on text for emotionally charged discussions can worsen misunderstandings and escalate tensions. Couples often feel braver venting through texts rather than facing their partner, as texting removes the vulnerability of face-to-face communication. However, this avoidance can prevent genuine connection, empathy, and growth.
In this article, I highlight the common pitfalls of text-based arguments and offer alternatives that foster healthier communication. Whether it’s having in-person conversations, picking up the phone, or simply cooling off before responding, these approaches can help couples build more resilient, compassionate relationships.
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